For the first 10 years of our marriage, Michelle and I lived in apartments. If we add our college years, that would be 14 years. I never felt comfortable living this way. The idea that we depended on the integrity, common sense, and sanity of other people for our very lives concerned me.
One person making a bad decision in an apartment building is all it would take for disaster to strike. The myriad household accidents that could lead to building fires or worse is magnified by the number of people living in the building.