The Zeiger Family Homestead Blog

Life in a small town, particularly a small Alaskan town, means people know you and your business. The title of Heather Lende’s first and most famous book says it all: If You Lived Here, I’d Know Your Name. This truth can be comforting, or discomforting, depending on the specific situation.

I grew up in small towns, many of them in Alaska. Nevertheless, as a shy person, I’m often taken aback by small town friendliness. While my upbringing and temperament allows me to fall easily into casual conversation with strangers, I am often left wondering if the people with whom I interact are simply being small town friendly, or if they actually know me.

Commonly, as we chat with a store clerk who seems to be treating us kindly as strangers, we notice that they are preparing our purchases for long haul carrying. They’ll ask if the items are packed properly for crossing the bay, indicating that they know exactly who we are! People who stop and tell me they read this blog probably throw me off balance the most. Continue reading →