Homestead Core Values: Family

If I were called upon to line up our Homestead Core Values in order of importance, Family would fill the first position (see Homestead Core Values). The importance of family may be the anchoring value in our home. Family is the . . . what, exactly? The core core value, perhaps the prime value. I think we can assert that our devotion to family formed the primary motivation for moving to the homestead in the first place.

I cover this thoroughly in the Family section of my book, Sacred Coffee: A “Homesteader’s” Paradigm but to recap briefly, we chose this lifestyle primarily because it would allow us to escape the normal patterns of work and education, which separate families most days of the week, sending parents to jobs, and children to schools. We sought a way to spend our days together, working and learning as a family.

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The Cat Coat

At the end of December, Michelle and I hiked through the snow across the ridge to the road. She took a turn at breaking trail, and as I hiked along, staring at her back, I began to think about the coat she wore.

We found the coat hanging in the cabin when we bought the place. It transferred to us, by agreement, along with everything else the previous owners decided not to haul out. However long the previous owners had it, they apparently decided it was no longer of use use to them.

It occurred to me that she had used the coat for about 11 years. I say “about,” because when we first owned it, I used it. At some point, she took it over, and it became her work coat. She uses it like a barn coat, wearing it whenever she has a particularly dirty job to tackle.

I mentioned this to Michelle as we trudged along. She pointed out that when she first started wearing it, she found a thrift store tag on it. Apparently, it had served a third person before being donated.

The idea of the coat living former lives amused us, because in the last year or so, it has taken on new meaning in our home.

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